Please note that the fact that a member has passed an HIV test does not guarantee that that person is in fact HIV negative. It only provides reasonable assurance that he or she was negative at a particular time in the past, . Please research these limitations. In our own choice of playmates, we require that he or she has recently tested negative by administerating a Orasuyre HIV test. We then take into account that person's sexual behavior, both stated and observed. Bisexual male activity is inherently more dangerous than a monogamous heterosexual relationship with your grammar school sweetheart. We wish to limit that danger in our own sex play.
1. This is a bisexual group; a situation in which bi and bi curious men, bi-friendly women and couples with bi males can pursue their interest, knowing that males they meet through the group have been HIV tested. All male members are at least passive bi. There is often heterosexual activity at a party (some women like several men, either at the same time or in series), but don't come expecting it. That being said, we have sponsored parties that were advertised as male/female gang bangs. Some men like to watch their women being fucked. "Cuckold" is the comon term for such men. If the male is bi, it can add an extra dimension to the experience. However, many of the women have a man and are only interested in playing with another woman. There may or may not be a woman or couple at any particular gathering. We are not a gay group per se: if you are a male and a woman requests your services, you will in most cases be expected to comply.
2. Each new male takes a OraQuick HIV test at the first party he attends. It is our intent that a HIV test is done by all male members every six months. We use these at-home 20 minute tests because there is no way to authenticate provided documentation. Let's face it: if a guy will lie to his wife - he will lie to us.
3. Parties are hosted by members in homes
or in hotel/motel rooms. If at a hotel/motel, attendees may or may not be requested to pitch in to help cover the cost of the room; in no case more than $40. No other money changes hands. If your
schedule restricts your play to 10:00 A.M. Tuesday mornings, you may not recover the cost of the room. If you host a party and do not want to use your charge card, the group's card may be
The date, time and general location of parties are listed on the web site and will be e-mailed to members.
A limited number of RSVPs will be accepted. The size of the gathering is determined by the party's host, which might be anywhere between 4 and 30 bi people. The host may put other limitations on the event, such as age, marital status, body type, etc. In most cases, there are no such restrictions.
4. Illegal drugs are not permitted at
In a private home, the home owner sets the rules.
(Poppers are not classified as an illegal drug.)
Alcoholic beverages (if over 21) are fine in moderation unless a home owner says no.
Q: I'm not sure about being with a group. I don't mind bi with a couple, and I don't need intercourse with the woman. Why should I bother with a group such as this?
A: Many couples are interested in or might actually prefer 3-somes and 4-somes, but they get tired of no-shows at the appointed time and place of the initial meeting. I know we are! Come to a party and have an orgasm or two. Who knows what may develop. The B.B.P.G. will from time to time set up an informal gathering at a location with a liquor license where member couples and singles can mingle and exchange information if they wish. Generally, a more intimate party develops afterwards.
French: Oral sex
Bottom: is used by a top for his pleasure. Oral is assumed, greek is open to negotiation. Dom and Sub might have additional connotations.
Rimming: Oral to anal contact